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How to Start the Divorce Process: Filing for Divorce with Tracey Bee

Are you thinking about divorce but don’t know where to start?
Whether you’re preparing to file or simply trying to understand your options, this Circle session will guide you through the first—and most critical—steps before the legal process begins.

Join us as Tracy shares real-world strategies to help you:

  • Navigate filing with intention (especially in high-conflict situations)

  • Organize your financial disclosures (and gather documents quietly)

Protect yourself—emotionally, legally, and financially—from day one

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How to Prepare a Divorce Settlement Offer in Missouri and Illinois: Divorce Financial Mediation

Navigating a divorce in Missouri or Illinois? Before you rush to court, take a step back. The smartest move you can make is preparing a solid divorce settlement offer—especially if you're dealing with financial complexity, hidden money, or a high-conflict spouse.

At Divorce Saint Louis and The Divorce Allies, we offer divorce mediation services, business valuation expertise, and parenting plan guidance to help you move from fear to clarity.

In this blog, you’ll learn how to prepare a settlement offer step-by-step—guided by a St. Louis-based financial mediator and valuation expert with over 20 years of courtroom and mediation experience.

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Melissa Gragg Melissa Gragg

First Steps of Divorce Mediation Services (St. Louis)

Gather Relevant Documents:

Compile all necessary financial and legal documents, including income statements, tax returns, property deeds, and information about assets and debts. Having this information ready will help facilitate the mediation process.

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